Thursday, March 31, 2011

2 Months!

Our little one is 2 months already and it's been a great month for her. I haven't taken her to the Dr. yet to find out how much she weighs or what her height is, but I'll post that later.

This month Elena found her hands and spends long periods of time looking at her moving fingers. It's quite amazing to watch.

She loves to chew on her tongue and also found her voice. Elena reminds us of a cooing baby pigeon.

She was registered with the government and received her identity card!

Just in the last few days, she'll smile for almost anything; the prospect of having her diaper changed, seeing our faces when she wakes up, right after nursing, small people making weird noises.

And we have discovered she HATES having a wet diaper. Oooooo.....she hollers.

Elena loves going for walks, she's been in many taxis, a bunch of car rides all around the city, and just today, went for her first trip to the market on the bus.

She is starting to enjoy the cuddly wrap more. And likes kicking up a storm in her little bathtub.

Elena has already had make-up applied to her. Joel felt she would be left out if the other girls were applying it. I shudder to think of what the next few months might look like considering we have play make-up, markers, chalk, stickers and plenty of tape....

She has gone to the pool and had her first Father's Day this month.

As of a few days ago, she is sleeping longer at night and becoming more predictable in napping during the day. Could this mean the prospect of more sleep for Mama?

It's been a great month with Elena. I find myself utterly amazed with this lil' gal. So small and yet so utterly in love with her.


Saturday, March 26, 2011

Look at her Go!

At the beginning of the month, Kezia learned how to ride her bike without training wheels. We had given the kids bikes as Christmas/birthday gifts and shortly after the New Year, Kezia announced that on March 1st she would be taking off the training wheels.

On the 1st, Joel marched off to the workshop to look for a screwdriver. Immediately, he removed Kezia's training wheels and announced to her it was time to learn to ride! What a guy, eh?

We took her on to the cancha and Carl and Joel helped her along. After a few crashes, she needed a break, but got right back on her bike. In hindsight, it would have been better to take her to a grassy hill to learn instead of letting her leave parts of her knees and elbows on the concrete. Oops!

We are proud of Kezia. Look at her go!



Thursday, March 24, 2011

Look What I Found



I love it when babies make discoveries and do it with such a humourous look.

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Paperwork Nightmare

I have a lot of respect for people here. And I'll tell you why....

Since Elena was born, we've been attempting to get her birth certificate etc. Oh my! what a crazy ordeal. Driving to different offices, talking to people who send us somewhere else, standing in line only to be told we don't have the right paperwork. Arg! Well, that's just life. It kind of reminds me of California DMV. We finally were able to get her certificate after a few weeks, praise God!

The next piece of documentation we need for her is her Bolivian identity card, her carnet. Carl went to the main office a few days ago and waited in line to confirm what sort of documents he needed. After running around, making sure everything was in order, off the three of us went. From the advice of a friend, we took along a few more documents and left early. Well, we thought it was early....

At 7:45 the line into the Transito building was 2 blocks long. The office only starts to let people in at 8:00. And since we had to be there in line with Elena in arms, we just decided that we'd try another day, even earlier.....

I suggested that Carl and take advantage of our "free" morning and go for a breakfast date. Well, while we were dining, a friend, Charis, was also at the restaurant. We told her of our attempt and she told us that we should ask our mutual friend, Rebeca who is a lawyer, to help us out. Duh!? Can't believe that I didn't think of that before. At noon hour pick-up, I talked to Rebeca and she said she could come the next day with us.

The next morning, we made our way to the Transito. This is the office where the carnets are processed for all of Santa Cruz and surrounding areas. That makes about 2 million people who need to be served. And since people have to renew their identity card every 6 years, we calculated that the Transito would have to process 1000 cards/people per day. That doesn't include the new applications for babies. 1000 people a day in a building that has the capacity of getting maybe 250 to 400 applications through.

That place was a crazy zoo of people in this dark and dingy building. It was hot and stuffy and as I looked around and saw all the people, patiently waiting, I felt sorry for all the mothers with young children and the elderly. There weren't enough seats for even half of the people who needed them. Interestingly enough, no one was yelling about why it was taking so long or how it was their right to be served. Everyone just accepted the process and waited. For that, I respected them. I wouldn't have that kind of patience. Maybe because in North America, we are so used to being first, the main priority. Always complaining when things don't go OUR way. And yet I wondered if people in the Transito building started to demand a more efficient service, hey maybe even more chairs in the place, would it result in a better process? Who knows.

There were signs everywhere saying not to dirty the walls. Even so, the whole place was smudged with inked fingerprints; on the walls, the desks, the chairs. The other signs warned people not to participate in corruption and only pay the established amount for the services. After waiting for 8 hours in that sweaty box, even I would be tempted to slip a guy $4 to speed up the process. Sometimes it's no wonder corruption is alive and well.

Well, our friend Rebeca waltzed in with us and went straight upstairs. She chased down an official and shoved our papers into his hands. She went on to explain our situation and then proceeded to follow him as he went down the hallway to another office, with us right behind her, hauling Elena. There were about 5 different stops for signatures, for us to quickly draw a map of where we lived, for us to stamp Elena's footprint on a card and Carl's thumb print (yeah, they didn't ask me for mine), and then do it over again because the official at the desk printed off the wrong card. They asked Carl for the name of one of Elena's siblings and one of her uncles to put into the system in case they lost her file. ??

After about 2 hours of scrambling in the building like mice in a maze, we completed our part of the paperwork and could escape to the fresh moving air. Rebeca said we could wait outside while she finished up the last of the forms. That was 2 hours with a lawyer. Wow.....

Next step is to send away documentation for her citizenship card and then her passport. Here's praying this step of paperwork is easier...

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Te Amamos Papito

Today was Father's Day here in Bolivia, on St. Joseph's Day. Asha had a program yesterday at her school where she was Lil' Red Riding Hood (Caperucita Roja). We were pretty impressed with her ability to dance and prance amongst some of her crying classmates! She said her lines and sang her songs all for her Daddy. It was very sweet. I'll share the video of her on a later post.



We gave Carl an Oriente (Santa Cruz futbol team) jersey as his gift after he enjoyed breakfast in bed. Joel and Kezia had made Carl cards and Asha had a special song to sing to him.  It was a good day to celebrate Carl. He's a wonderful father to our 4 children. Our kids are blessed to have such an amazing dad.







Thursday, March 17, 2011

Blessed Baby Shower

On Tuesday, the ladies bible study I attend had a beautiful baby shower for Elena and I. This was Elena's first baby shower, since during the others she was still in utero. Yes, there were others and we have been totally overwhelmed by the expression of love our friends have lavished upon us. Baby showers for a 4th child are almost unheard of.

Jeanie led a touching devotional that talked about not worrying about our children, but to pray for them and to guide them. What a privilege to be a mother!

And of course, the food was amazing. The gifts were adorable and the time was very memorable.

Monday, March 14, 2011

That's What They Said



I can help with her.



I'd like to hold her.



I'm going to pet her.

*Ha ha*